Can you judge your own volume?
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Can you judge your own volume?
I'm curious if other people have trouble judging their own speaking volume. It seems that most of the time nobody can hear a word I say unless I talk so loudly that it hurts my own ears. Other times, especially if I'm excited about something, people complain that I'm shouting at them. Aaargh!
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I have a similar problem with volume control. I'm usually louder than people want me to be. I can't stand to be anywhere to loud or too quiet, libraries are particularly tortuous as I have to suffer the fear that at any moment I could knock something over that would make a noise and draw attention to me. If I am working the silence doesn't bother me but I seem unable to work in libraries anyway, too many people around.
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"You're shouting"
"Am I?"
is a common conversation stopper in my household.
Mum, I think always recognised and took solace in an old Pam Ayres ditty called. "Foghorn" which ended.
'Your my dearest little foghorn
in the country or the town;
oh but how I sometimes wish
that I could turn your volume down.'

"Am I?"

is a common conversation stopper in my household.
Mum, I think always recognised and took solace in an old Pam Ayres ditty called. "Foghorn" which ended.
'Your my dearest little foghorn
in the country or the town;
oh but how I sometimes wish
that I could turn your volume down.'
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Lithium_joe wrote:"Your shouting"![]()
"Am I?"![]()
is a common conversation stopper in my household.
Mum, I think always recognised and took solace in an old Pam Ayres ditty called. "Foghorn" which ended.
'Your my dearest little foghorn
in the country or the town;
oh but how I sometimes wish
that I could turn your volume down.'

I know that one well.
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Re: Can you judge your own volume?
No I have that problem as well and I one with the tone of my voice, people tell me I shout, shierk and sometimes sound angrey. 

Re: Can you judge your own volume?
If I get worked up about something I start talking too loudly and don't realise. I get embarrassed when I'm told about this, but I know I need to be told as I don't want everyone to overhear my conversations!
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Re: Can you judge your own volume?
I have volume control issues as well. I tend to notice all of a sudden that I seem loud or sometimes I think I sound loud and ask and the person I'm talking to will say no (or they say "yeah a little"). I do know that everyone makes fun of me because when I call anyone... apparently everyone in the room they are in can hear me 
