How to deal with poisonous people

[Meg]

On the second one when it says the infomation one question is

Primary e-mail address/member ID associated with the account you are inquiring about:

I don't understand what that means

[donnaf]

I would say that you put the email address that has been hacked into on that line, the one you cant get into, and make sure they respond to your backup address that you have.

[Meg]

Ok thanks. Done it now just a case of wait and see. She really does annoy me. Its also as my dear friend Annie pointed out is an invasion of privacy.

[donnaf]

Yeah it is an invasion of privacy, hacking is illegal so technically she could be in some trouble. I had some trouble with something a few months ago and they couldn't have been more helpful, so u should be fine on that side now

[Meg]

Thanks you for all your help. You've vbeen wonderful.

Luv Meg
Xxxx

[donnaf]

Anytime, glad I could actually do something to help

[Shadwell]

hi Meg, sorry to hear all of that, I just read from my last post now!

hope you are able to sort out your hotmail, and msn, as it makes me sick that someone would do that, especially when it is something that effects you, like drama and stuff.

and it isn't funny at all, it is a shame that there isn't any way of stopping her from using the i-net!

anyway good luck with trying to get it all sorted out.

[donnaf]

How did it go with that girl Meg, did u have it out with her? Is she still in your account?

[Daniel]

It got sorted out in the end as MSN has a password reset function that sends details to the secondary e-mail address used for registration, as I understand it. This allowed Meg to regain access to the account and change the password and personal question to something new.

[becky]

Sorry to hear that happened to you Meg, what a horrible girl! I've had similar things happen to me, but in the end of the day, they are loser, not you! I've reccently fallen out with a girl who i thought was one of my best friends, i lived with her and when i decided to move out, she just completely started being horrible to me. In front of other friends. My best friend decided to intervene on my behalf and now we're no longer friends. At the end of the day, she was a silly cow of a girl who didn't want to understand about my dyspraxia (and the sly comments were all directed at that, i don't think she believed there was anything wrong with me!) and whilst she was a good friend for over a year, i really should miss her more than i do. At the end of the day, there are prats out there, but if your a good person and believe in yourself, their behaviour shouldn't get you down. Their bad attitude and behaviour shouldn't make you feel bad about yourself. I have spent way too much time being hurt over the actions of others, and I've just decided that i'm going to try not to let it bother me!

[FREEFALL]

i've had that a lot in my lofe and i've learned to look at it this way. "what makes this person's life so great anyway" is she fufulled, is she happy. or is she just taking out their frustations out on you because she wants control over her own life at the pain of yours.

[Auron]

oh god, i know some people like that.

One in particular had a very, very hard life, and was basically fucked around the entire life.

it;s too hard for me to tell that person that they shouldn't treat other people the way thay themselves have been treated, and instead that they should show kindness at every opportunity, kindness they themselves have never been shown.

I feel sorry for people like that, and I know it's like chucking gifts into a blackhole, but I always help them out and show them atleast a little kindness.

[tompete123]

If you can keep away from that person it will do you good otherwise stick up for yourself and your friends will too. You need to have belief in yourself first thats so true. Good Luck