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Intimacy
Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 2:33 pm
by Glitch
I was just wondering if anybody else finds emotional intimacy very difficult in relationships?
I find both men and women hard to read (women are harder!) and hate letting people get close to me... Hence I tend to sabotage boyfriends or girlfriends when I start to like them
Does anybody else get this?
Re
Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:52 pm
by tompete123
All this is so new. I think I have done this as I am scared to of screwing up with a girlfriend.
Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 12:55 pm
by gherkin001
Its something everyone goes through out of fear of making mistakes. I tried to push Clive away so many times when we got together, but the stubborn way he is, he just wouldnt go... 5 years later we're still together and happier than ever.
Kirsty
Re: Intimacy
Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 10:06 pm
by tompete123
[quote="Glitch"]I was just wondering if anybody else finds emotional intimacy very difficult in relationships?
I've had this same difficulty. Its better now I think you just learn as you go along and if you have an understanding girlfriend it helps too. I had my first girlfriend at 23. Now I'm 37. I'm not saying its easy but its not always beacuse of dyspraxia what one feels.