I was just wondering if anybody else finds emotional intimacy very difficult in relationships?
I find both men and women hard to read (women are harder!) and hate letting people get close to me... Hence I tend to sabotage boyfriends or girlfriends when I start to like them
Does anybody else get this?
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All this is so new. I think I have done this as I am scared to of screwing up with a girlfriend.
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Its something everyone goes through out of fear of making mistakes. I tried to push Clive away so many times when we got together, but the stubborn way he is, he just wouldnt go... 5 years later we're still together and happier than ever.
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[quote="Glitch"]I was just wondering if anybody else finds emotional intimacy very difficult in relationships?
I've had this same difficulty. Its better now I think you just learn as you go along and if you have an understanding girlfriend it helps too. I had my first girlfriend at 23. Now I'm 37. I'm not saying its easy but its not always beacuse of dyspraxia what one feels.
I've had this same difficulty. Its better now I think you just learn as you go along and if you have an understanding girlfriend it helps too. I had my first girlfriend at 23. Now I'm 37. I'm not saying its easy but its not always beacuse of dyspraxia what one feels.