Why do we obsess over things and how to gain control

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Gingerflamingo1991
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Why do we obsess over things and how to gain control

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I find I tend to obsess over something a lot. It's great when it's a hobby as I can be super productive. But when it's over something like something from the past, it's unhelpful. But I can't seem to let go.

Also why do we obsess over things? Is it us trying to process things?
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Re: Why do we obsess over things and how to gain control

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I've found that because of dyspraxia I've had a tendency to want to try to wrest some degree of control of what can seem very uncontrolled. Of course people and things have a nasty habit of doing anything but conform to our sense of what is logical.

Persistence and determination can be something of a double edged sword if we don't recognise a lost cause.
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Re: Why do we obsess over things and how to gain control

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I have become depressed regarding dyspraxia affecting balance . I had a nervous breakdown to get my ADHD detected, early 2020.
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