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Negative People

Posted: Sun Jul 28, 2019 5:07 pm
by cricketman123
Why are there so many negative people in my life. I feel so angry that i have let the negative people take control of me. I have had friends in the past who have bitten me, taken my glasses from my face. I have had another friend who gets angry if i don't meet up with him and always puts me down saying i am not good enough.

I love travelling but i have had my dad who doesn't want me to get a part time job, doesn't want me to live on my own, never wants me to travel. I have dyspraxia like i have said in the past but i am very lucky to have it mild but there are people in my life who haven't treated me like that. So should i let these negative people go

My mum and stepdad treat me amazing nothing like my dad

Re: Negative People

Posted: Tue Jul 30, 2019 6:39 pm
by Tom fod
Travel is definitely a good thing as it can allow us to increase our independence and self reliance. Where have you been and where do you hope/plan to go. It's a shame your dad seems to want to hold you back. I think we can all be a bit prone to being taken advantage of and it isn't nice. Completely natural to feel angry but best to resolve to tell that person straight or make other better plans rather than turn the anger in on yourself. That said, it isn't always an easy thing to do.

Re: Negative People

Posted: Fri Aug 09, 2019 12:33 am
by michael
I'm so sorry thos things have happened to you. Let go of negative people. I learned that lesson too late in life