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expression from a woman on chat

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A woman said, "I am happy to try to find me to love." Does that mean she is interested ?

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Regrettably it is impossible to say without full context. Online dating messages can be so difficult to interpret.
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The woman said "I hope you find a girlfriend, "I am happy to try to find me to love."

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ALADDIN wrote:
Sat Jun 27, 2020 8:26 am
The woman said "I hope you find a girlfriend, "I am happy to try to find me to love."
To me the "I hope you find a girlfriend" suggests that she is really not sure. But is at least being nice in saying she hopes you find someone.

"I am happy to try to find me to love." is more confusing and if it was me I would ask her to explain that bit.

Not that I really know much, since I have always been single and not really had the confidence that a lot of women seem to expect of a man.

I've found online dating a total nightmare and gave it up as I was really piling so much pressure on myself I was becoming really miserable with every subsequent failure.
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Hi Aladdin,

As Tom says context is everything and you've not got much to go on especially since i think what she said is is slightly oddly phrased.
To me personally saying "I hope you find a girlfriend" means good luck in your endeavours but you've not found one in me, I could be completely wrong though the only way to know for certain is to just flat out ask if shes interested in you.

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The woman has anxiety in social situations.

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ALADDIN wrote:
Tue Jun 30, 2020 6:15 am
The woman has anxiety in social situations.
A lot of folk do.
I do myself to a degree, how about yourself?
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