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jimmy87notts
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Dyspraxia and sex

Post by jimmy87notts »

Hi guys, I'm a 33 year old gay man. I'm currently seeing a guy but I cant seem to get past this awkwardness of sex. I'm not a virgin, had sexual relationships in the past and we seem to have an ok sexual relationship, but I always seem to feel the same way. I struggle to tell them what I want them to do as I feel like I shouldn't be making demands.

For those of you who are gay, I'm also a bottom, but I want to try topping, but I get very shy about my body weight and clumsiness.

Please does anybody have any advice. Is this normal
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Re: Dyspraxia and sex

Post by Tom fod »

We certainly are no holds barred when it comes to questions and being straight and not really experienced I had to consult the urban dictionary for a clue.

You are normal and I know a lot of folk, not just dyspraxic, struggle with communication, especially in regard to sensitive topics and difficult conversations.

I guess the two you need to have a frank conversation of what you both like, your fantasies and individual concerns. Is this scope for some role play.

Anyway I wish you both all the best.
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JodydollIver63
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Hi, man. I think your problem is caused by a psychological condition related to your sub-conscience, stress, or anything else. You have to trust me; it's nothing organic because, most frequently, it is the Lerich syndrome that is rsponsible for erectile dysfunction. But as long as you can get an erection and not capable of maintaining it, it has nothing to do with organic causes. I also used to take viagra at guys from ILLEGAL URL REMOVED BY ADMIN but it didn't change the situation as much. I started feeling some improvement only after I started therapy sessions. I hope you'll sort it out and maintain a hard-on as long as needed. Take care of yourself!
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soniamann
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Re: Dyspraxia and sex

Post by soniamann »

Oh, I understand you perfectly too. I'm gay too. I had feelings similar to yours. It was also very difficult for me to overcome this clumsiness of sex, even though I had had enough sexual relations with different guys. It wasn't very easy for me. I couldn't find any method to get over it and feel much more comfortable during the following sexual relations. What helped me a lot to get over it was sex chats on livepornguide. I never thought a sex chat would have helped me, but it did here. I talked to different guys online who helped me see the situation differently and feel much freer. It helps.
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