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by paulo
Wed Apr 16, 2014 11:43 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Trouble with self acceptance.
Replies: 3
Views: 922

Re: Trouble with self acceptance.

when you say "you figured out it dyslexcia was the culprit" does that mean you have assumed ?, because if it could be some other problem, it is not healthy to self diagnose as it could be something else more serious. Also im not sure dyslexia is to be blamed for stealing quotes from facebook (i do i...
by paulo
Wed Apr 16, 2014 11:19 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: 4 year rut :(
Replies: 10
Views: 1294

Re: 4 year rut :(

The act of letting go is not an easy one it has to be practiced, not holding grudges, letting go of the past and moving on, etc.
it helps to sit quietly and just repeat in your mind "let go, let go, let go" do this daily and let yourself relax and it may help.
by paulo
Thu Apr 03, 2014 11:49 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: 4 year rut :(
Replies: 10
Views: 1294

Re: 4 year rut :(

Finding someone who matches you, I have just come out of my own 8 year rut, and i spent most of those 8 years trying to live up to others expectation that everone just HAS to be paired off, people condesending when your not in a couple (not everyone but enough), i found that i really had to "let go"...
by paulo
Tue Mar 04, 2014 5:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does Dyspraxia and Dyslexia put partners off
Replies: 16
Views: 2793

Re: Does Dyspraxia and Dyslexia put partners off

ah yes sorry Boogey, not bogey LOL: thanks for correcting my dyslexic spelling :blush:
by paulo
Sun Feb 16, 2014 12:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does Dyspraxia and Dyslexia put partners off
Replies: 16
Views: 2793

Re: Does Dyspraxia and Dyslexia put partners off

just need to find the right person.

" i can bogey !
yes i can bogey,
but i need a certain soul,
i can bogey
yes i can bogey,
all night looong!" :-({|= :banana:
by paulo
Wed Jan 08, 2014 4:44 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Cannabis and Dyspraxia
Replies: 11
Views: 5343

Re: Cannabis and Dyspraxia

i used to smoke on a daily basis to be able to get rid of excess tension when i stopped smoking i started to have unplesant dreams at night and felt like i was going mad during the day (experiencing very dark thoughts) i fopund excersise whilst listening to music was a good replacement for smoking a...
by paulo
Mon Dec 16, 2013 12:33 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: It's time to lose your dunce cap
Replies: 13
Views: 2511

Re: It's time to lose your dunce cap

a while ago i went on a tree climbing day and during the safty talk the instructor choose me (cruel twist of fate) to come up and follow a piece of written instruction , it was somthing very simple like "attach the green rope to the red link" but as soon as the instrcutor saw i was taking time to re...
by paulo
Sun Dec 15, 2013 10:56 am
Forum: Studying
Topic: Dyspraxics with university degrees
Replies: 17
Views: 7461

Re: Dyspraxics with university degrees

have a degree in physio therapy
by paulo
Mon Nov 25, 2013 3:52 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Can't go on like this..
Replies: 5
Views: 812

Re: Can't go on like this..

shame that your feeling so down, i thgnk we all understand how you feel, when i felt like this in the past i started to do yoga, and meditation. this helped as i started to enjoy me own company whihc relaxed my anxiety and then i began to find it easier to be socail (still dont find it easy but "eas...
by paulo
Tue Oct 08, 2013 1:12 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: dyslexic gift NOT a curse
Replies: 3
Views: 819

dyslexic gift NOT a curse

Strengths of Creative Thinkers * Many people with learning differences of Dyslexia and ADD are capable of some extraordinary thinking and can be extremely successful once they learn some coping strategies. This is why we prefer to call them, more appropriately, Creative Thinkers. Some of the Creativ...
by paulo
Tue Oct 08, 2013 1:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Making small talk
Replies: 3
Views: 972

Re: Making small talk

some people srtuggle to get into the rythym of a conversation and end up feeling like they are being ignored (which is usally not the case) learning to play an istrument can help with a better sense of rythym and thoose skills can transfer to other areas of life, and also give you some confidence.
by paulo
Tue Oct 08, 2013 1:00 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: have i passed dyspraxia to my son?
Replies: 9
Views: 4198

Re: have i passed dyspraxia to my son?

lets try not to see dyspraxia, dylexia as a problem, and more of a gift. We have to learn to see things differently to keep up with others in school and work, struggle with sports and condidence, but when we manage to overcome these hardships we are more open minded, capable of extrodonary thinking ...
by paulo
Mon May 06, 2013 10:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do any other Dyspraxics get mistaken for Gay?
Replies: 31
Views: 12180

Re: Do any other Dyspraxics get mistaken for Gay?

Looking past the gay topic, I think in many ways being Dyspraxic makes it harder to attract a partner. If you look at nature the stronger animals attract more mating partners because healthier specimens are more likely to produce healthy offspring and so it's very much Darwin's evolutionary theory ...
by paulo
Mon May 06, 2013 10:04 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Hearing everything all at once?
Replies: 23
Views: 21728

Re: Hearing everything all at once?

Being in a room wiht many conversations going on used to be quite unplesant and would mean that i coouldnt focus on any one conversation made me seem quite antisocail. however since ive been listening to binaural beats from youtube set on alpha wave. i can now focus in on any conversation in a room ...
by paulo
Fri Apr 26, 2013 11:04 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Binaural beats amazing for dysplraxia/ dyslexia
Replies: 1
Views: 1721

Binaural beats amazing for dysplraxia/ dyslexia

I started meditaing some time ago to see if it would help with my coordination etc and had good results . then i discovered Binaural beats that you can find on you tube. It play to different sound into each ear making a pulsing effect, different frquencies have different effect on the brain . exampl...