New here - applying for PhD and feeling super stressed!
Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2021 10:29 pm
Hi
I am 29, I got diagnosed with dyspraxia when I was 17. Get all the normal ‘symptoms’, incredibly clumsy, say the wrong words a lot and loss of concentration are probably the immediate things but like everyone else, there’s a lot that aren’t that obvious to start with. Anyway, I am applying for a PhD at the moment and haven’t been in academia since September when I finished my masters.
I have a million questions for advice but I guess I would love to know how people deal with confidence? I feel like I lose my confidence very quickly if something doesn’t go as plan and just to start off with it’s pretty low, this is something peers and tutors pick up on a lot - with frequently being told to stop saying sorry. I guess I get so overwhelmed by how hard I find certain things, I think ‘oh I can’t do this, I’m not good enough, I’m stupid’ etc.
Anxiety brings on my dyspraxia (or even the other way round, a little bit of a chicken or the egg scenario) so feels like a vicious circle, and the more stressed I am the more obvious it is with the issues I have - like speech or short term memory loss.
Anyway, I don’t mean to go on! yeah just be great if anyone’s in a similar situation or got any advice.
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I am 29, I got diagnosed with dyspraxia when I was 17. Get all the normal ‘symptoms’, incredibly clumsy, say the wrong words a lot and loss of concentration are probably the immediate things but like everyone else, there’s a lot that aren’t that obvious to start with. Anyway, I am applying for a PhD at the moment and haven’t been in academia since September when I finished my masters.
I have a million questions for advice but I guess I would love to know how people deal with confidence? I feel like I lose my confidence very quickly if something doesn’t go as plan and just to start off with it’s pretty low, this is something peers and tutors pick up on a lot - with frequently being told to stop saying sorry. I guess I get so overwhelmed by how hard I find certain things, I think ‘oh I can’t do this, I’m not good enough, I’m stupid’ etc.
Anxiety brings on my dyspraxia (or even the other way round, a little bit of a chicken or the egg scenario) so feels like a vicious circle, and the more stressed I am the more obvious it is with the issues I have - like speech or short term memory loss.
Anyway, I don’t mean to go on! yeah just be great if anyone’s in a similar situation or got any advice.
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