Dyspraxic Adults

Hello,

I wondered if there is any link to dyspraxia and struggling to orgasm for women?

Anyone else had this experiance?

Sprocket

This actually has been asked before so you may be interested in following past posts which may hopefully be of interest

http://www.dyspraxicadults.org.uk/forum ... asm#p15794

and

http://www.dyspraxicadults.org.uk/forum ... lit=Orgasm

Please do report any inappropriate responses/PMs

I have never an orgasam my ex made me have sex even if I did not want to he would not let me go to sleep in till he had it so I did not injoyed it very often but I fine I have no sex drive or I am super horny all the time any one x

Welcome Carlylou
I'm really sorry to hear your ex treated you badly. it's hardly conducive to enjoying trusting and letting go when it comes to climax. Also as men our sex drive works differently (For a lot of men any time is good though if we are preoccupied with other worries we might have a rare moments when we're not in the mood). All guys are different.

It is important that whoever he is, he is considerate and open to finding out what you like and what your needs are. You may need to guide him/tell him what you want and how. Some of us men are hyper focused on it and what we see in porn (too often totally unrealistic) probably has an impact on some of our behaviour.

All the best and take care. Please value yourself and take care.

I haven’t had an orgasm in a long time and I'm looking for some alternatives to help with that at home. I’m interested in exploring new ideas or methods to experience pleasure. Any suggestions or tips would be appreciated!

Hey, I’ve read that dyspraxia can sometimes affect body awareness and coordination, which might play a part in things like sexual experiences. Everyone’s different, though. It could be worth chatting with a doctor or therapist who’s familiar with both.

Is this thread suitable for male perspective also, or were you hoping for female only? (I will of course respect the intended theme)
I’m a gay male.

I have also had this experience, yes. I have never been in a sexual relationship (from incompetence and fear thereof but not lack of want) but I struggle to make myself orgasm. My friend recommended I try a sex toy but I got really anxious about it so I didn't buy one yet but I hope to soon. Then at least I will know if it is a dexterity-related issue with my hands or if it some other problem.

Dyspraxia and orgasm is not a big thing , we have to talk about it openly. This the now general in the world. We have to accept it.