Meetings

GWhizz · Post by **GWhizz** » Fri Nov 24, 2006 1:02 am

I'm not sure this is classed as relationship but i was in a meeting on a nvq youth work training the other day and I found it really difficult loads of people being disrupted felt really wierd. My relationship with other youth workers is ok but I think some of them need to wake up. I found it really hard as people were being rude and laughing and I felt that my brain hadn't caught up. I had a accident where I dribbled a little bit and I felt clumsy and my brain wasn't functioning I don't the attitudes of my other collegues were a little more to be desired and I felt alienated as we were doing about group work I felt not listened too as thery were assigning roles and I felt incredebly frustrated Grr

As for relationships I am feeling a little lonely at the moment. I am a Libra not that I am into astrology and I was talking to my line manager and he is very into it and says I am not a classic libran I am more emotional as he says. At my volunteer work I have seen someone I like she seems friendly and I found out she is a Pieses and he said they don't match but other then that she sheems ok but we were talking about our lifes and she said she had personality disorder when we were talking about disabilities. I can't seem to make sense of anything at the moment HELP!

Greg · Post by **Greg** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:37 am

I shouldn't be put off by someones birthday being incompatible, but it sounds like you're not so it's all good :P

As for needing to make sense of things, I reckon most people here would need a fair bit more data to say much of anything. (Or maybe that's just "thinks too much like a computer" Greg)

In the case of the groupwork it depends what you were doing. A medium-large group given a task that needs to be solved in limited time gets nowhere if it tries to function as a comittee, someone always takes charge and assigns tasts, nowt wrong with that (though of course the group tends to do better when it's leader has some time to listen)

You say your relationship with the rest of the group is generally okay, it seems unlikely that they'd suddenly decide to tear chunks out of you. (figuartively speaking) Could their being rude and laughing be interpreted as the sort of jokes friends often exchange or is it guenuinely mean?

I was talking with someone last night whos boyfriend had been unable to go to the cinema with her because of his moms birthday and she'd replied "What sort of bitch gets born on a day that I might want to go to the cinema" as a joke. He took it seriously and felt she was rude/mean so it could be something like that I guess.

gherkin001 · Post by **gherkin001** » Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:54 am

My partner is Libra, Im a picses and we've been together nearly 5 years so I wouldnt worry. I believe in star signs, I dont get on with taurus' because of the personality clash I suffer (not cause i go out of my way to not like them!) but Clive and I couldnt get any closer and our relationship is off of the star sign spectrum for "perfect" matches.

Kirsty

robyn · Post by **robyn** » Fri Sep 07, 2007 3:54 pm

me and my boyfriend are a total non match acording to star signs, Im sagatarius and hes cancer, however we're perfect together, and the things that the star signs say we'd hate about each other we love!! in reality we seem to compliment each other exactly, everything Im terrible at hes an expert at and vice versa, however we have similar tastes and ideas and the last (nearly) five years together have been the best ever for both of us