my boyfriend of 3 weeks, who is 10 years older than me iam 22 he is 32 told me he wanted to cool things down and take things more slowly, and not see each other as often, and he thinks things are moving too fast. He also said that me and him have different interests i like sometimes going on a night out he hates them with a passion and wouldnt go in them, because of flashing lights noise crowds etc - he has dyspraxia and dyslexia. I am dyspraxic too. But I said to him that I like lots of other things other than that and its just really to spend time with my friends and things like that and to be perfectly honest i can think of a lot of nice places to go with a boyfriend than a night out. I told him this and he says he doesnt know me well at all and wants to get to know me better. I really like him and feel confident with him.
Ive been having quite a bad time recently as my grandad has passed away and my grandma has been in hospital so when we have met up ive tried to keep conversation light and airy to take my mind off things. Any advice much appriciated
A bit of advice please
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