Love

[Little Miss Anxious]

" I'm sorry to annoy ye all with my problems or talking about men etc often but I need your advise. Will I ever find a love that feels as much for me as I do for him? How do I find a man who doesn't badly suffer from depression and where I can have a joyful safe happy life at the same time? I have went through 4 men and one didn't love me as much as I did and he took advantage of me. I just want to be loved for who I am and respected, someone I can share my interests with who is not aggressive or passive and I don't want to always have to worry about the person I love so much that I cant be happy. Am I going to be alone??? wb

[rhyds]

(Please forgive the following analogy, I've started on some cider...)

Finding someone to share your life with is like trying to find a nice pair of shoes. You always end up trying a load on or even buying some that are uncomfortable or wear out too fast etc. The trick is to keep looking and you'll eventually find some shoes/someone that fits you right*



*I am not a footwear/relationship expert...

[Little Miss Anxious]

Thanks. The guy I'm with I love very much and have been living with him since March for four months. I am very happy with him even though he has low self esteem but his self esteem isn't as bad as it used to be he used to self harm. There are two men who scamed us on a 500 dog and we agreed to pay 500 coz my man wanted the dog and I though it would help him mentally and physicall but we changed our mind and wanted a small dog instead which one of these bad guys said was fine but we were pushed into keeping the big bull dog instead and then we had to pay even though he gave us a week to do it and we nearly payed it all untill a fight occured with my boyfriend and our flat mate who associated with these scammers so we had to move out at the last notice, then our flat mate rang these gys up complaining that my boyfriend is moving out so my boyfriend insisted to pay the 1 or 200 when he gets back which he said was fine but then when my boyfriend was at home they were looking for him and after a few weeks the owner of the dog increased the cost to 500 more and now if my boyfriend ever comes back to sligo they will kill him and he has lost two dogs recently had a cousion who betrayed him die, his girlfriend died from drug abuse, his car has broke down,he owes the bank 900 loan for college which he is paying at the moment or has payed a bit ,he lives in the countryside, he may get kicked off the course in Sligo if he doesn't come back, if he does come back he will see Ross he will contact these gangster friends who Ross became friendly with and got my boyfriend involved with them but my boyfriend never went out anywhere with them, he just chatted and drank with them, there is bad new about my boyriend from the gp, he is scared and miserable and angry and is feeling low. He only has his parents, me and one close friend who is my friend too. We make a great couple, he has always guided and protected me from danger, he is understanding, loyal, playfull, fun, affectionate, kind, very loving loving, generous and polite. Somehow I feel that I am loosing him. I love him and I want him in my life coz he was so special to me. I din't wanna give up on him or split with him. how can I help him? Im begging you! please don't tell me to let him go he would never give up on me or abandon me I know that. Wb

[Little Miss Anxious]

I have find someone I click with but that has received alot of trouble.