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Feeling really scared

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Hi I'm doing my level 3 and I'm so scared because next week I have to go to a new nursery to volunteer four days working with babies I've never looked after a baby before so am so scared
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Hi again
You're understandably nervous both with a change to what you'll be doing and a different nursery with different colleagues who you fear might be impatient and/or unkind. Equally they could be lovely! Please don't be afraid to say you've not had experience with babies before, hence why you're going there to learn about the practical application of what you've been studying.

You've got this x
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Hello again Tom Thank you so much tom I'm so scared xx
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You'rewelcome

New situations and uncertainty about how we'll manage can definitely cause a spike of anxiety. It would be worth looking into strategies like Grounding to help you arrest the downward spiral of worry and overwhelm.
Take care x
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Thank you so much I got through it and passed my assessor gave great feedback xx
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You're very welcome and so glad it went really well.

So often we struggle with performance anxiety
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Thank you so much I feel so proud of myself had a lovely weekend celebrating xx
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It can be nerve-wracking, but honestly, babies are pretty forgiving, and you'll pick it up as you go. Just try to stay calm and remember that the nursery staff are there to guide you.
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Re: Feeling really scared

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I remember my first time working with kids—heart was racing! Babies can seem intimidating, but they’re mostly just looking for comfort and care. Maybe try watching some quick videos on basic baby care (like feeding or soothing) to boost your confidence.
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