"but I have never understood the tension between science and religion" - Science always tries to move forward through rational thinking and testing the limits where as religions are stubborn and dont move forward,at least not in the same sense as science.There is a reason why there is tension and there is alot more too it!!
"The scientific explanation of how a "kettle boils" for example, talks about all the processes of the molecules etc..energy..SCIENTIFIC FACT. So it proves there is an order behind it. It explains HOW it boils, it does not explain why" - There is always a reason why, the kettle boils cause you flipped a switch enabling electricity in to travel through the element inside the kettle thus heating up the water where it evenually boils.Its like saying there is no reason why boiling water comes out of a geyser,there is always a why,but you have to look for it.
"Even looking to the big bang vs the 7 days of creation story. The language originally used literally meant "stage" of creation. We will never know whether one stage represented a million years or a billion years." - As science wasnt so much then as it is now,the writers of the bible most likely didnt have a clue and people where not educated like today so they would believe anything,humans know more now cause science isnt so restricted nor in the boundries of religious views,I.e. most scientist are not religious,so they are not held back by old fasioned opinions and try to look for the awnsers of our universe watch this film and you can learn some things....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religulous
And something from my mind,what annoys me about religion,always you will find that there is excuses,reading about mental health recently I saw someone saying that people who have mental health problems are in the image of jesus on the cross and that they are closer to god and getting in to heaven easier,dont quote me,but I read it,its an excuse and a one up for religion,they only protect the religion,not the people.when a child is born with a horrible problem,religion says god loves them,its never gods fault,but its always our own and it always seems to be like that,one excuse after another.I was sick when I was born,hole in my heart and sick for first 3 year of my life,I was told that when I was still in the hospital that I should get baptised so I can go to heavan and not Purgatory,weeks old and I would go there,bullshit to the highest order,the whole idea is laughable.I know that along time ago there was no choice but to do those things cause people where so afraid.now we can use our minds and explore life while not being afraid,and since most of us here have dyspraxia and other disorders its a little more difficult to do so,and also its unfair to brainwash people who are gullable and obsessive with religion.Ive a hard time dealing with religion cause of how it is and how it threats people,so Im not religious,I dont care if he or she(god) really does or doesnt exsist and I dont see why we have to be afraid of such a thing,If I died tomorrow and If god exsisted I would argue with him/her for all time