Realtionship/Emotional Issues

[Robletthenob]

Hi want to no if any of u guys can help me here, im nearly 18 and i seem to have a problem when talking to girls and i finally managed to ask a girl out , she told me she fancies me but she will have to take it slowly, last week i went bowling with her and a few friends, in those 2 hours of bowling she completely ignored me and kept flirting with one of my best mates . I avoided school, shut my self away from everyone and stopped eating properly, i think i have been going through some kind of depression(Is this normal for people with dyspraxia?). My friends have been really worried about me and managed to get me to express myself, but i still keep looking at myself and feeling upset, she completely destroyed the little confidence that i had , if any of u guys have had a similar situation please let me no how u dealt with it and how can i rebuild my confidence and self-esteem again coz i cant keep feeling like this its not healthy. thx in advance

[Evasura]

Maybe she's shy and she didn't want to show you that she likes you and that's why she ignored you. Apparently that's what we women do. Are you brave enough to ask hr directly? I know it sounds easier than it really is. I've never been able to do it myself, but I know that it is the right thing to do. Getting embarrassed once if she says she doesn't like you or she was ignoring you can't be worse than what you going through, can it?

[Robletthenob]

cool thx for the help, yeah i told her how i felt but shes going out with someone else (but admitted she that she did like me) but we are good m8s again, . i do feel happier now i got it out of my system and im glad she didnt do the thing where they take ages to respond lol that is really awkward

[Robletthenob]

Ok ignore my last post bout 2 days after my last post she went around trying to turn friends against me saying that the reason she said what she said was coz i was being "aggressive" towards her, so i dont talk to her anymore and neither do most of my friends now

[Magic_Lemur]

She sounds like a Freak show.

I went out with one last year, who everyone said was weird, but I ignored it.

She ended up dumping me, pretty much in revenge for her having been dumped the previous year by some1 else. She also posted a Youtube vid about what was wrong with me (short video ), so I know how you feel about them 'turning friends against you' thing.

Trouble is us men suffer from 'one-itis', much more than women do. Apparently the only known cure is to go find 20 other women & try it on with them. Then you will see truly what 'the one' is like &, if you want to proceed, you will have confidence & experience.

That said, I have chronic one-itis (see above).

Where are all the sane women who aren't driven crazy by their dyspraxic tendencies?

[Robletthenob]

[quote="Magic_Lemur"]She sounds like a Freak show.

yeah some of my friends didnt trust her and I should have listened to them, and yeah she is a freak show just wish i saw that before hand

[Robletthenob]

Thx to those that posted , just 2 let you all no i think i may have found someone else i get on with her soo well its great, I've never felt happier . I can see this possibly being the one I've been looking for(Yeah I no it sounds odd but it feels different from the freak show lol)

[differentfromtherest]

Aw qwll I'm glad ya found someone else x