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Gina
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Hi My Name is Kelly (but kelly was taken as a login)

I am 26 years old and when I was 7 I was diagnosed as dyspraxic - but no one ever explained to me what having the condition meant, how to cope with it, that it would make making friends, school and work life dificult or that it meant it would impact so much more than "being clumsy".

I had only found out recently through my own research into the conditon that it is a neuroliogical disorder and that so many things I thought were just weird quirks and personality traits of mine are actually symptoms of the condition, knowing that would have made so much of my life to date easier for me and easier to explain to other people why I am the way I am.

Even though I have suffered severly with low self esteem and depression on and off for years my Dr never made the correlation between the two.

I would love to talk to other dyspraxic people (hence why I have finally found this forum) as I have never met a dyspraxix person before and hardly anyone seems to have heard of it, I also feel that it might be fun and a way to make understanding friendships.

I enjoy reading, watching tv, I sold my car (it took me 2 years of solid lessons to finally pass the test and a very patient driving instructor) so that I could go to college to train as a chef as I love cooking, I was made redundant from the office job I had in December (where I was continaually critised for being forgetful, clumsy and not listening properly and not being able to add up correctly), I am messy, forgetful, clumsy, emotionally unstable, funny, humourous, clever, and slightly unpredictable :D.

Sorry about the length of this I am a bit of a "waffler" and HELLO to everyone :D


xKelly
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hi :D :D
welcome to the forum - im v impressed you work as a chef i think i would be sacked and / or kill someone on day 1 #-o i was diagnosed young with dyspraxia as well - aged 5 but like you i only really started researching the condition myself a couple of years and what it meant in relation to me i think your right no one really knows what the condition is but what makes me panic more now is when people say they know what the condition is because there almost always wrong :lol: someone told me that i t meant i couldnt recognise what different shapes were ??? :lol: - I argued that i could !

sorry i waffle as well welcome to the forum ! :D
Gina
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cpr02 wrote:hi :D :D
welcome to the forum - im v impressed you work as a chef i think i would be sacked and / or kill someone on day 1 #-o i was diagnosed young with dyspraxia as well - aged 5 but like you i only really started researching the condition myself a couple of years and what it meant in relation to me i think your right no one really knows what the condition is but what makes me panic more now is when people say they know what the condition is because there almost always wrong :lol: someone told me that i t meant i couldnt recognise what different shapes were ??? :lol: - I argued that i could !

sorry i waffle as well welcome to the forum ! :D

Hello Thank you for replying I am so happy that I found this forum - the more I read the more I feel well...erm NORMAL?

Being a chef is V challenging for me but I do love cooking and I think after working in an office for 5 years I know any job is demanding, also there is less bitching and backstabbing in catering and hospitality if you mess up the chef tells you instantly - then its over, no gossip.

WOW - whenever I tell anyone I have dyspraxia they have never heard of it or think that I am making it up - lol about the shapes thing ha! - I tell people a lot I am partialy deaf that way they seem quite happy to let me lip read or repeat information- more receptive than if I tell them I have dyspraxia.


x :D
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Hi

Welcome to the forum!
Drama is life with the dull bits cut out...
Gina
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thanks liz and hello!

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Creative
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Hi Gina. Welcome to the forum. I'm nearly 26 and was diagnosed with dyspraxia when I was 15. I've been volunteering at my local library for over a year now which I really enjoy.
zanderman1980
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hi kelly, im in exactly the same boat as you :( the ups and downs off being dyspraxic arnt great.. i try to focus myself so i bring happiness to others :)
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Hi Kelly my name is Alex nearlly 21 i have recently got a job with surrey police start very soon how does your dyspraxia effect you

look forward to your reply

Alex
Gina
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Alex wrote:Hi Kelly my name is Alex nearlly 21 i have recently got a job with surrey police start very soon how does your dyspraxia effect you

look forward to your reply

Alex

Hi Alex what do you do in the police force?

My Dyspraxia affects the way I think, perceive people, my organisational skills, balence and my moods how about you? x :)
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Hi Gina!

Sound weird, but it's so nice to hear from others suffering from the same symptoms! I can suffer from terrible paranoia. Everytime someone approaches me at work I panic when quite often it's nothing at all!
Alex
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hey Kelly i've left two messeges in ur inbox hopefully u have read them and hoepfully will expalain more about me

Alex
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Hi Gina
My Name is Catriona I was disagnoised since i was 7 years. I find that people do not what it like.
Do you have a partner?: How do you explain what it like to him.
I might have one soon?
I worked for Oxfam as a Volunterr on the till.
Please reply.
Catriona
Alex
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sorry to butt into your post my partner is slightly dyspraxic but i have had partners in the past that are not dyspraxic i just explain it as it effects co-ordiantion throwing and catching the ball and spacial awereness cant tell distence between things hope this helps

Alex
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