I get more upset about having hypochondroplasia more than others?
Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 1:15 pm
I have hypocondraplasia and I have always been told either in a supportive or hostile manner "not to let it bother me" Even when I get discriminated,taunted, named called all the kind of stuff you can image for a woman of 4ft 6inch. I will get the moaning out of the way before the dyspraxic part.
So other people with the condition don't let it bother them and you can tell they don't care. Whereas with me I feel more fed up about everything that comes with looking the way I do. I seem to get more embarrassed when people feel the need to shout at me or start pointing it out and asking me or other people " why is that woman so small?" This comes from adults and children obviously. Particularly when I'm by myself. I also know when people are taking the mick out of me as I seem to spot it almost everytime like being hypersensitive to every remark or gesture. This can make me (although I'm right) more wary of people and whats going on around me all the time.
Other people with the condition don't seem to have an outburst or retaliation or get all hot and embarrassed. I have been known to shout back only to get laughed at more. I'm wondering how many dyspraxic people here have been known to get temperamental and even get into fights with others in similar circumstance? I find I am quite tense and "bricking it" in these situations. Of course people take it as "you are attention seeking" attention seeking this and that like your not aloud to complain. Yes people wine and moan but it seems people like myself with these behaviours and emotion are always getting put in the wrong even in injustice.
You don't understand in yourself why other people are getting funny with you when you are right in situations. Also people can think your being funny with them when you actually were not and use it to claim your lying which can cause outbursts etc.
So is this because or possibly because of the dyspraxia? I have corrolating factors,anxiety,brain lesions and born prematurely by 6 weeks. I am very sorry about the spelling I am getting terrible at it lately.
So other people with the condition don't let it bother them and you can tell they don't care. Whereas with me I feel more fed up about everything that comes with looking the way I do. I seem to get more embarrassed when people feel the need to shout at me or start pointing it out and asking me or other people " why is that woman so small?" This comes from adults and children obviously. Particularly when I'm by myself. I also know when people are taking the mick out of me as I seem to spot it almost everytime like being hypersensitive to every remark or gesture. This can make me (although I'm right) more wary of people and whats going on around me all the time.
Other people with the condition don't seem to have an outburst or retaliation or get all hot and embarrassed. I have been known to shout back only to get laughed at more. I'm wondering how many dyspraxic people here have been known to get temperamental and even get into fights with others in similar circumstance? I find I am quite tense and "bricking it" in these situations. Of course people take it as "you are attention seeking" attention seeking this and that like your not aloud to complain. Yes people wine and moan but it seems people like myself with these behaviours and emotion are always getting put in the wrong even in injustice.
You don't understand in yourself why other people are getting funny with you when you are right in situations. Also people can think your being funny with them when you actually were not and use it to claim your lying which can cause outbursts etc.
So is this because or possibly because of the dyspraxia? I have corrolating factors,anxiety,brain lesions and born prematurely by 6 weeks. I am very sorry about the spelling I am getting terrible at it lately.