An accident

[Little Miss Anxious]

I think I maybe pregnant coz I'm going to the loo an awful alot and had sex 3weeks ago only using the condom in front sex but not in back sex,the condom seemed okay.SEmen was collected no hole but did any spill or was there some left over when we were about to have back sex.I am really worried.Getting tested tomorrow.Bye

[Pooky]

Hi,

You can't get pregnant from having anal sex, unless semen will have to come into contact with your vagina. Bear in mind that STIs can still be transmitted through anal sex so it is better to use a condom if you are not in a stable relationship. If you are in stable relationship perhaps consult with your GP about taking the contraceptive pill.

I hope the test results go the way you wish tomorrow.

[Little Miss Anxious]

Got test and the two of them showed up negative but the Gp said there is still a chance you may be pregnant.I need another sample which you should urine the next morning and I will see you on Thursday week.Ya I know that,but I was bottom less before we had anal sex so could there have bin a bit of semen left on his dick which driped on my vagina.You see I dont know,or after sexual intercourse he could of accidently let some semen out when pulling off the condom.Amnt in a commited relationship,although it was with a friend who I fancy and he is indecisive about if we should go further.But he cares about me,loves me,thinks I'm great and is sexually attracted to me.About chances of pregnancy-he thinks I'm exaggerating.He said "Youl see next week that your not pregnant I promise you! "Trust me coz I know! Trying to stay calm,have no buuterflies but am nuts about this guy and whish I could have a normal sexual relationship with him.I admire him

[Little Miss Anxious]

My period came today.At first I thought it was the start of pregnancy because of the lightness but my weight is going down and it was up before I got the test

[rah]

i hope next time you learn to use a condom every time you have sex, regardless of where he's sticking it and also start taking the pill, it's better to be safe than sorry, and i mean with sti's as well as pregnancy.

also, if he's still indecisive then don't sleep with him, it won't get you anywhere, if he really cares for you and respects you then he'll prove it by commiting himself to you rather than sleeping with you and not taking precautions.

[Little Miss Anxious]

I did use the condom at all times.We bought one without my consent.He came bk to Ireland with it,I was annoyed but when he got kicked out and had this as protection and promised he would go slow and soft and stop when I tell him too.He did and he kept telling me that your ok.Your not pregnant.I'm not.He does care about me but feels I deserve better when it comes to being a couple.He doesn't want to hurt me but he does want me.His feelings for me have changed but mine havn't and I want to sleep with him without the sex sometimes.I love him and I want his pleasure.I just feel happy.Maybe I'm wrong.I'd miss him if he was gone.I want him to happy.I'm happy with him

[Little Miss Anxious]

Wellm not Saturday night but I made sure I didn't encounter it and got pleasure another way.I was extremely carefull.We weren't naked but a few times he had to pull down my trousers abit.He thinks I have a nice but and he is sexually attracted to me.I am just very passionate and affectionate about him.Maybe its not love.He excites me,we laugh and he laughs he keeps tabs on him if he sees I'm down and asks whats wrong.He gives me hugs when I ask or trys to keep me company when I am scared and enjoys my company when I go he asks me to stay longer.He rings me up saying he misses my smile my face and talking to me.He gets lonely if I'm away for a week or two or if he is away and is extremely affectionate like i've been away for a year.Is there a rule about love?Ps:Now his flatmate has met me Friday week and is crazy about me but the man I fancy isn't.........?