Dumped again..

Esioul · Post by **Esioul** » Wed Jul 25, 2007 3:36 pm

I'm in a bloody rotten mood right now, because, without any warning, I got a call from my boyfriend on monday night to tell me I'm dumped. Just like that. Feel like hell. Why do they always break my heart then walk away unscathed?

Liz944 · Post by **Liz944** » Wed Jul 25, 2007 7:41 pm

Hi Esioul,

I am really sorry to hear about your boyfriend dumping you....

My suggestion is phone up your friends and go out and have a good time and have a good laugh with them... it will cheer you you up...

Post by **Shadwell** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 7:18 am

sorry to hear that Esioul, seems like he didn't care at all, and that is why he can walk away unscathed.

do like Liz says, phone up friends, and have a good get together, and put the world to rights!! and hope to see you are back, to your usual chirppy self soon!! as the forum isn't the same without your posts!!

Mike

Esioul · Post by **Esioul** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 8:35 am

I'm going out with a friend today. It's not the same, though. I'm going to very lonely, for a long time, I think. They aren't exactly queing up these days. not with the way I look.

Post by **Shadwell** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 8:55 am

don't put yourself down, otherwise you will never enjoy your night out.

no-one said it is/was going to be easy, look at a chewawa, if it can look like a double decker hit it!! and still get a bit on the side, then being human then there shouldn't be any problems!!

good luck with tonight.

Creative · Post by **Creative** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 8:56 am

sorry about your boyfriend. Hope you have fun with your friend. I am sure you will feel more cheerful soon.

robyn · Post by **robyn** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 6:30 pm

heya, sorry to hear bout your boyf troubles

I had many many a****** boyfriends (and with some lovely ones) before I met my current guy, who is perfect. So you have to kiss alot of frogs......

One thing I learned is that you have to believe your worth loving before others will. I know this is easier said than done, it took me so many disasters!!!!!

best of luck

Esioul · Post by **Esioul** » Thu Jul 26, 2007 11:12 pm

I'm so worried I'm going to have to kiss so many frogs that the princes will be disgusted by me and avoid me.

I just can't beleive that he's walked away happily and left me like this. He's no doubt got someone knew, but I'll probably be alone for the rest of my life.

Lumic · Post by **Lumic** » Fri Jul 27, 2007 4:07 pm

i can sympathise with you i felt like that in jan thought no one would want ,me id be lonley why did it happen etc but to be truthful i am so happy right now i have amazing friends still no bf but dont actually want one am the happiest i have ever been and think the break up was fr the best.

i am sure once you have got over the initial heartbreak and shock things will seem ok and you never know you may enjoy being single putting the worlds to rights and having fun. u will find your prince one day but in the mean time have fun x

Esioul · Post by **Esioul** » Sat Jul 28, 2007 5:12 pm

I'd really like to be with someone. Someone nice, this time, who at least when they dump me, don't do it over the phone without even giving us a chance to sort thigns out by talking... I can't beleive it, I still can't beleive what's happened.

I think I have a lot of care and love to give, but no one wants it! If I looekd better, I suppose, it would be different.

david456 · Post by **david456** » Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:14 pm

Dumping you be text shows his immaturity. If he's not man enough to tell you face to face, he's really not worth worrying about. I know that's easier said than done.

You can do alot better. Hope you fell better soon.

Liz944 · Post by **Liz944** » Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:10 am

Hi Esioul,

Don't be so hard on yourself. You need to feel good and confident about yourself first otherwise other people pick up on the negativity. Use the time you have at the moment to find your feet and gain your confidence back.... the boyfriend issue will soon resolve itself...

If he has not got the guts to dump you face to face it, it reflects badly on him and the type of person he is. You are probably best out of the relationship I am sorry to say, especially as it is upsetting you... things will change....

Auron · Post by **Auron** » Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:55 am

Sometimes men are just ****.

it;s important not to take a break up as a reflection on your end, think of how you wouldn;t have wanted to go out with him another second anyways if you knew he treated people how he just treated you then.

he can go and **** himself.

gherkin001 · Post by **gherkin001** » Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:09 am

Guys just dont give their hearts as easy. Dont worry about it too much, just dont go having rebound sex you'll make yourself feel so much worse. I tried that once and I just felt cheap.

This could be for the best, I had just had an experience like yours, feeling sorry for myself and moping about when Clive came into my life. Its five years on December the 11th that we've been together now. The phone call that i thought had ruined everything only opened up my opportunities to meet the best guy in the world...

Im always about if you ever need to talk...

Kirsty