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I keep having arguements with a close friend

Postby m1985 » Thu Apr 26, 2018 12:06 pm

Just wondering if anyone can give me some advice, I keep having arguments/falling outs with a close friend of mine, I think we both seem to have got fed up of us keep having arguments/falling outs and we've both said at least once in the past that I think because we keep having arguments/falling outs we should not be friends, but the other person has persuaded the person not to, the friend says that they understand that it's my dypraxia that makes us keep having arguments/fallings out and at least once or twice I have started an argument just for the sake of wanting an argument, what should I do or does anyone have any advice?

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Re: I keep having arguements with a close friend

Postby Tom fod » Fri Apr 27, 2018 8:21 am

What do you tend to fall out /disagree over?

Is the disagreement one-sided?
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Re: I keep having arguements with a close friend

Postby m1985 » Fri Apr 27, 2018 7:08 pm

The last one, which I think was on Tuesday was because I was really tired and just wanted an argument with them, we had another argument today (Friday) about something that I said that the person misunderstood, I've had enough of us keep falling out now, this must be about the tenth one in recent week and we usually seem to be having at least one a week, so after todays falling out I've had enough and have cut them off as it's causing me too much upset and stress, etc.

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Re: I keep having arguements with a close friend

Postby m1985 » Sat Apr 28, 2018 6:40 pm

Update: fortunately we sorted things out this morning and I don't think we're going to have any more fallings out/arguments, which I think is excellent news for both of us.


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