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No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by athletic dysprax » Thu Dec 28, 2017 1:27 am

Beyond frustrating

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Tom fod » Thu Dec 28, 2017 2:53 am

Know the feeling 8-(

How does anyone define relationships and/or romantic attachment and how do we find and achieve compatible planetary alignment with someone in our galaxy?
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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by ALADDIN » Sat Jul 07, 2018 11:02 pm

I find it hard to get girls, my friend with severe dyspraxia, including speech dyspraxia.

I sometimes get anxious and can become shy, I do not handle new situations well sometimes.

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Dan » Fri Jul 13, 2018 10:52 pm

Me too. I'm not attractive and am only 5"7, so yeah... it's basically out of the question for me. Heh.

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Monique » Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:17 pm

I feel for you, I've just turned 27 and have never dated once in my life. At this rate I'll become a nun....!

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Xam » Thu Jul 19, 2018 7:27 pm

I feel for you all fellas.
I'm 26. The only "relationship" I had was 6 years ago, and was extremely abusive and toxic. One year ago, I also had to face the fact that the one girl I was having a crush on wasn't in love with me (or not anymore) and was a sick person.

Since then, knowing that we aren't on the top of these sick romantic and sexual competitions our siblings love so much, I decided to let go and... focus on something else. Sure, it let me a gap and it's very unfair that we have to deal with it more than most. But I'm trying to live happily and healthily alone right now - preparing the trials for my dream job (in civil service), working out and doing some muay thai (from September).

That is really all I can say to you all, try to not think to much of it, and if none wants you - perhaps it is because none deserves to be with you ? I wish you the best of luck. ♥

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Dan » Fri Jul 20, 2018 10:24 pm

Xam wrote:I feel for you all fellas.
I'm 26. The only "relationship" I had was 6 years ago, and was extremely abusive and toxic. One year ago, I also had to face the fact that the one girl I was having a crush on wasn't in love with me (or not anymore) and was a sick person.

Since then, knowing that we aren't on the top of these sick romantic and sexual competitions our siblings love so much, I decided to let go and... focus on something else. Sure, it let me a gap and it's very unfair that we have to deal with it more than most. But I'm trying to live happily and healthily alone right now - preparing the trials for my dream job (in civil service), working out and doing some muay thai (from September).

That is really all I can say to you all, try to not think to much of it, and if none wants you - perhaps it is because none deserves to be with you ? I wish you the best of luck. ♥
In fairness, I've had a few relationships, so I was being quite hyperbolic in my post. Still, I'm not exactly Casanova either...

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Re: No one finds a romantic connection with me

Post by Xam » Sun Jul 22, 2018 2:27 pm

Dan wrote:
Fri Jul 20, 2018 10:24 pm
Xam wrote:I feel for you all fellas.
I'm 26. The only "relationship" I had was 6 years ago, and was extremely abusive and toxic. One year ago, I also had to face the fact that the one girl I was having a crush on wasn't in love with me (or not anymore) and was a sick person.

Since then, knowing that we aren't on the top of these sick romantic and sexual competitions our siblings love so much, I decided to let go and... focus on something else. Sure, it let me a gap and it's very unfair that we have to deal with it more than most. But I'm trying to live happily and healthily alone right now - preparing the trials for my dream job (in civil service), working out and doing some muay thai (from September).

That is really all I can say to you all, try to not think to much of it, and if none wants you - perhaps it is because none deserves to be with you ? I wish you the best of luck. ♥
In fairness, I've had a few relationships, so I was being quite hyperbolic in my post. Still, I'm not exactly Casanova either...
Well, there still is some toughness (is that the right word ?) for us on that field - or should I dare to say "some hostility" ?
The (social) rules of these sick "games" haven't been written so we could "win", that is a fact.

Therefore, I still wish my siblings (us) good luck on that subject.

I'm glad for you that you could still find some relationships despite of that. I hope it'll get better.

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