I noticed I or others as well can relate to this, but you suck your self in to future tense mode after a little while dating rather then present. Like having a conversation in now instead drifting off to rainbows and lollipops lands. I figure that's why at times one is clueless to hints or getting rejected.
One trick is to not own but to be : meaning what I said before , about being in the present but no one owns each other just let it be. Then confident is chasing u, and u are not chasing being confident.
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