maintaining relationships
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Re: maintaining relationships
yah i got the same problem when im tired or there is too much going on in my head my communication skills go wayyy downhill..i think its the same for everyone regardless of being dyspraxic or not but maybe effects dyspraxic people more...what i normally do if feel like this is go to the bathroom or something and take a deep breath and take a minute to gather myself..really works for me...cup of Coffey really helps aswell if im tired..
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Re: maintaining relationships
My first bf told me he loved me and would never leave me. I used to jump into bed with him whenever I had the chance as I was head over heels in love with me he ended the relationship then the next week was back with his ex and told everyone he was still a virgin which really hurt me. I am now with someone who may wind me up at times but loves and cares for me for the way I am so now i am happy. I always find that when you are single no bloke (in women) wants to know yet soon as you get in a relationship every bloke wants to get with you (I have about 3-4 blokes who fancy me)
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Re: maintaining relationships
I've never cheated but just being with people are hard enough as it is.
Re: maintaining relationships
Hi Wobble
I can't communicate when I am really tired or when I have been really busy or just finished something/ a day that was really busy or needed a lot of effort or concentration. My mother and I used to fall out about it a lot, she just could understand and thought I was being a stroppy teenager. With my current partner I am just honest about it and say lots happened and I will talk about it and tell you everything, but not now - later or tomorrow. He still can't cope with my not wanting to talk at all if I wake up before my alarm goes off or any time during the night and we still argue about it. But I definitely suggest just being honest and saying you will talk about anything later.
I can't communicate when I am really tired or when I have been really busy or just finished something/ a day that was really busy or needed a lot of effort or concentration. My mother and I used to fall out about it a lot, she just could understand and thought I was being a stroppy teenager. With my current partner I am just honest about it and say lots happened and I will talk about it and tell you everything, but not now - later or tomorrow. He still can't cope with my not wanting to talk at all if I wake up before my alarm goes off or any time during the night and we still argue about it. But I definitely suggest just being honest and saying you will talk about anything later.