Catwoman42 wrote:I have now discovered, a bit later in life than I would have liked, that however lonely you are it is important not too appear vulnerable or needy. My ex boyfriend was messing me about when we went out, he got back in touch recently, but because I am not showing much interest he is keen to meet. There were some people on the course who were very needy and it showed. I learned from this that if you appear to be self sufficient, friendly and independent it will attract people to you.
All of this is very correct. I used to be very quite and would never give my opionion and was quite needy but not that I'm the complete oposite I can see how annoying it is to have to deal with someone is clingy. I agree being self-sufficient, friendly and independent works and as for the boyfriend....well sure fellas like nothing better than a chase!