How to deal with poisonous people

robyn · Post by **robyn** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 10:49 am

meg, the fact that they are picking on you speaks volumes about their inadaquacies, not yours. dont let them bother you, lifes too short

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 5:10 pm

I agree with Robyn on that one! But I must say, sometimes it's a lot easier said than done.

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 6:52 pm

no it hasn't got that far, but everyone said they will stick up for me. In regards to what they've been doing, is using me by making me buy their lunch and silly little things. Once we had an assignment and I'd worked really hard on it and I needed to upgrade it as i hadn't put in enough detail and I told my tutor that I didn't understand it and then this girl goes "God its not that hard" but to me it was. A

Another time they trashed my room and broke a few things.

Luv Meg
Xxxx

Post by **Shadwell** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 9:24 pm

sounds like it is time to give them more than the cold shoulder then meg,

just ignore them is best, even though it isn't easy, it will be slightly easier than letting them get to you.

it is hard mainly because days in college, and uni are supposed to be fun, and more a soicial, instead of like school.

I found my first year in college to be fun because was in primary school with a fair number of them, even though I knew 1 blokes brother, better than him, but we really hit it off from the word go, mainly as he is mad!!

so me, and him had a pc compitition, I lost even though I had about 6 years experiance!! but don't think I would have gone as far as he did!!!!

still friends with him now, and chat to him on our i-net game, so some good things do come out of people you meet in college!

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 1:58 pm

Last night some one from college hacked into my msn account and first of all just mucked around with my contact groups, but then changed my secret question and now I don't know the answer. I know who it is coz my very very kind friend Robyn said that she pretended to be me and said something like ' I need my beauty sleep' and Robyn nows that was not true. Luckly what this person doens't know is that I have aback up account so she can get lost for all I care! When I couldn't sign in I was so upset. I really am debeating wheather to have an arguement with her tomorrow or just leave it.

Luv Meg
Xxxx

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:14 pm

Who the hell does she think she is?! Thats not even funny thats just out and out bitchy. Have it out with her! Anyone who finds out what she did will not say you were wrong to.

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:28 pm

Thanks, coz also now she can pretend to be me and log in as me. Everyone i've spoken to says I should have it out with her. but i'm not confident and I hate arguements, but what the heck I will tomorrow.

Luv Meg
Xxxx

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:57 pm

Just remember, you are totally right here. That is really out of order here and you will get respect for standing up to her. Take a deep breath and if you stumble over your words just try to blank it out and carry on cause everyone gets words confused when they are angry. God I can't believe she did that, it makes me angry to think of it!

Post by **Daniel** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:58 pm

I think you should contact MSN and see if they can restore the account to your control or at the very least disable the account that's been hijacked, as I assume this affects all your hotmail emails as well as MSN. It may also be the case that what she's done is illegal, although I'm not entirely clear where the law stands on this.

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:59 pm

Yeah that too, I'm sure MSN can sort that side of things cause it must happen fairly often.

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:08 pm

Thanks for all your advice. Does anyone know where I can contact MSN. Yes it does affect my emails as I have emails from my drama group so if they send me stuff I won't know about it. Last may she hacked into my account again and read a very very private email to one of my old teachers.

Luv Meg
Xxxx

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:47 pm

Do you use hotmail n windows messenger? Cause I have a link to report windows live messenger abuse if thats what she's using

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:49 pm

Yes I use windows live messenger. Thank you

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:51 pm

Try these 2 links then, whichever u think fits your problem best. Or use both n double slap her hah hah!!

https://account.live.com/helpcentral.aspx?mkt=en-us

http://support.live.com/eform.aspx?prod ... ct=eformts

Good luck! Hope they can help

donnaf · Post by **donnaf** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:53 pm

I dont think that the top link works properly, but if you type the word "hack" into the box that says "search for" then it should come up with the page I meant