Alex wrote:Thank you for your reply thats the thing i believe i should go for someone who has dyspraxia as i have said in previous messeges because i wouldnt find it hard to explain it to someone who doesnt have it i dont know how much you have read but about 4 months ago i met a girl told her all about me told her about my dyspraxia and it must have automatically put her off now she is happy in a relationship with someone else i mean and please forgive me as i do not mean this to sound big headed or selfish iam a nice guy i have got through so many things over the passed 20 years that for some reason or another girls dont see that thank you for your advice what kind of things do you find differcalt with your dyspraxia?
If I am honest I am in two minds about your statement and your feelings contained which we should be all too concious of.
Before I go on can I just say I do not for one moment ting it is big headed or selfish any small personal achievements like the one you made (getting through what you have done) - I feel much as you do. I too am hesitant to trumpet my achievements because of a view I have that it could be construed as arrogant. I believe however also - however much it seems paranoid and perhaps untrue of of me to say so - that we should forget any confusion that may exists that whilst some personal achievements we say we have done is OK and simply is us being proud, other things we have achieved that we say is being arrogant and concieted and just treat our achievements for what they are.
That rant over I will go on - albeit with another . I am in two minds about your statement and the feelings contained because whilst I don't totally believe that you should narrow your search to just those who are Dyspraxic because their is women out there who I am sure will accept your problems, appreciate and admire what you have gone through and see that your not totally incapable of everything and that you are very able to understand a woman and treat her with respect and kindness, women like the ones you encounter do prove that theirs a minority. A minority you would do well to steer clear of. It takes meeting them to find out but atleast you know who to gravitate to and who to simply forget.
Further to my last post yesterday the daughter of my Unles ex-wife came round yesterday and invited us to a surprise birthday party to celebrate her mums 50th.
This I see as my one true chance to meet girls on their own turf - a pub (albeit probably the function room). The kind of terriroty that people tend to say is one of the most preferable to meet girls at.
If anyone has any experience of chatting girls up in social surroundings of the type pubs tend to become on an evening and can give me advice as to how to approach one and what to say them, I would be very grateful.
good to hear from you again mate i have some experiance of meeting women at social gatherings what you must do is start on somthing calm nothing that would cause offence start off light heartly conversation then if you feel brave ask her her name and offer yourself to get her a drink then just have light not to heavy converations make her laugh just take it nice and slow and steady obviously dont go for every girl in the room/house but if you see a women on her own as i said start off on somthing light and then tell her about yourself i hope this helps
hi there my name is frank I have dyspraxia I am 23 years of age from alnwick and I have tried getting a GF but gitrls get put off by my dyspraxia I have been told not to say anything And I have been hurt a lot recently does anybody have any advice on what i should Do i have been told i am looking to hard and I have also been told not to Look but i just get angry at myself if anybody has any ideas then please get in touch thanks frank
Hello Frank my name is Alex 20 years old live in guildford like you i have girls who i think are put off by my dyspraxia even though i believe that there are some girls at my place of work who do like me my best advice would be is just to wait until girls come to you dont get put off by things that happened in the past try and not let girls put you down i have lost count by the ammount of times i have been knocked back as iam sure you have but just pick yourself up and crack on i hope this helps and good luck
. I am in two minds about your statement and the feelings contained because whilst I don't totally believe that you should narrow your search to just those who are Dyspraxic because their is women out there who I am sure will accept your problems, appreciate and admire what you have gone through and see that your not totally incapable of everything and that you are very able to understand a woman and treat her with respect and kindness, women like the ones you encounter do prove that theirs a minority. A minority you would do well to steer clear of. It takes meeting them to find out but atleast you know who to gravitate to and who to simply forget.