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by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 7:18 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: shocked how to say no
Replies: 4
Views: 3657

Re: shocked how to say no

If she knows you're unemployed, it's absurd she's asking you. You could even tell her something along the lines of, "As you know, I'm unemployed at present. Consequently, I need to make sure I have enough money to eat, keep a roof over my head and pay for travel to interviews for the next few ...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 7:16 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: shocked how to say no
Replies: 4
Views: 3657

Re: shocked how to say no

Tom fod wrote:You can say you're sorry to hear of your friends financisl predicament but she needs to take this up with the hotel and/or her bank. It really is not you problem.
Simples
Exzactly I thought she should ask her mum who she's actually going away with four a contribution and not me
by invisible2014
Tue Apr 25, 2017 10:38 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: shocked how to say no
Replies: 4
Views: 3657

shocked how to say no

Hi my friend texted me today ,I'm so shocked,she knows I'm unemployed and she told me she's in debt 500 pounds because the hotel that her and her mum are going away to has taken there money out.im so shocked because I'm employed and I'm not going away with her so why ask me
by invisible2014
Mon Apr 24, 2017 3:31 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

Hi This is good news though I guess you have some worries.? You're in the best place to know if you are ready to start a new job ,though you may want to seek your Drs opinion too and speak to the school about your unfortunate previous experience at the preschool. It might be an idea to give them a ...
by invisible2014
Sun Apr 23, 2017 4:32 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

Thankyou everytime,well I was emailing around regarding volunteering and one school replied back asking me to apply for a paid role and send cv,they've now said there really interested and would like to invite me to arrange an interview howger I'm really unsure how to go around the fact that i becam...
by invisible2014
Mon Apr 17, 2017 6:10 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: bit embarrassing health
Replies: 1
Views: 3233

bit embarrassing health

Hi a bit embarrassing sorry to post it on here but a bit worried because when I go to the toilet I'm.getting rectum bleeding and pain and have developed this right thigh pain,its not my menstrual cycle because I haven't got this,it's lots of blood coming on
by invisible2014
Mon Apr 17, 2017 6:05 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

Feeling like I wish I hadn't have quit or gone off sick which I had been brave enough to face it ,I can't cope with no job feel so isolated
by invisible2014
Sun Apr 16, 2017 3:47 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

It is a legitimate fear and you're not alone in experiencing these kinds of fears. As Jim suggests I think you really do owe it to yourself to speak to a counsellor or therapist about your worries and concerns so you can build confidence in yourself again and move forwards. From what I've understoo...
by invisible2014
Sun Apr 16, 2017 2:23 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

Thankyou for your reply I'm.so scared off the future,I wish i could just not wake up I hate not having a secure job I feel really bad I hate not working its attrotious and is awful feels horrible
by invisible2014
Sun Apr 16, 2017 8:36 am
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

Re: a bit offended :-(

Have you considered having a single thread here where you can off load and rant about your work struggles? It'd certainly make it easier for others to lend moral support and/or advice. A couple of years back I went through some job turmoil and I put it all in here: http://www.dyspraxicadults.org.uk...
by invisible2014
Sat Apr 15, 2017 2:56 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 8293

a bit offended :-(

Hi so I sent out with a worry college today have gone back doing bank work.i.e covering staff and they were saying how the directors at first didn't want to take me back because of needing to be flexible and hpe I shall have spoken to.then which is what I did
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 05, 2017 5:56 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Just diagnosed with Dyspraxia after working in job for a few months?
Replies: 5
Views: 4036

Re: Just diagnosed with Dyspraxia after working in job for a few months?

Hmm... am actually still on trial, I need to do first aid again and I was hoping if I told them this, then I should explain that I'm dyspraxic.. so I can get support? Hi englac1,I completed understand i had a job few years ago as a clinical support worker and resigned as couldn't do cpr,and felt hu...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 05, 2017 4:58 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Asda magic cant go
Replies: 2
Views: 2558

Re: Asda magic cant go

Tom fod wrote:And what business is it of theirs now that you've left?

It's hard but they've no right to judge you in your efforts to find a new/better employer.
True xx
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 05, 2017 4:57 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: dilema
Replies: 5
Views: 3332

Re: dilemma

Hi It's great that you've got to the second stage. You must have impressed them. You need to be honest and not be ashamed to put your side of the story about what happened in your last job and how you plan to avoid history repeating itself. So are you still signed off sick or has that come to an en...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 05, 2017 4:56 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: dilema
Replies: 5
Views: 3332

Re: dilema

Jim wrote:The advice would be, don't lie.

Honesty. Learn how to turn a negative around to a positive.
Thankyou your right next interview I get I will email before going for interview to make it easier xx