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by minniemoo
Sun May 12, 2013 1:55 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Restlessness or pure impatience?
Replies: 2
Views: 4390

Re: Restlessness or pure impatience?

restlessness is often mistaken for impatience, but it is not the same thing. the pure discomfort you describe is not the same as being impatient. There are some things and some people that I am sure you have all the patience in the world with and for but this decision making thing you can't stand. I...
by minniemoo
Sun May 12, 2013 1:52 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: pushing instead of pulling
Replies: 6
Views: 4892

Re: pushing instead of pulling

Me too! Always push not pull and vice versa. I so love those doors that swing both ways!!! :whistle:
by minniemoo
Sun May 12, 2013 1:50 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Struggling to find love
Replies: 19
Views: 9232

Re: Struggling to find love

A tad harsh indeed!

To be fair though Captain Ludd, I think most women would describe the majority, if not **ALL** men, dyspraxic or not as emotionally retarded!!!! :lol:
by minniemoo
Sat May 11, 2013 4:06 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Dream Recollection
Replies: 8
Views: 4739

Re: Dream Recollection

oooo, interesting subject! :) dreams are amazing things and I have always had very vivid ones, often with soundtracks! but never yet with subtitles!!! :) I also sometimes get to re-do dreams - the ones which are a bit like computer games - I manage to whizz through the first bits of the dreams secon...
by minniemoo
Sat May 11, 2013 4:02 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: seeing blobs of colours
Replies: 4
Views: 2138

Re: seeing blobs of colours

not sure about the blobs - never happened to me. am drawn to various colours at various times though, but that is a little different. sensitivity to light affects many people - dyspraxic and not. Best advise is to wear sunglasses as much as poss when outside, as it tends to be sunlight that causes t...
by minniemoo
Thu Apr 25, 2013 2:36 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Table manners / food issues
Replies: 14
Views: 12992

Re: Table manners / food issues

Don't worry about what people think! Just enjoy your food - I know that is easier said than done! :) I love eating the middle eastern way where you just use your hands to eat everything - it is fun and although other people initially tend not to like it, they soon lighten up! :) especially if the fo...
by minniemoo
Thu Apr 25, 2013 2:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: touch
Replies: 8
Views: 6514

Re: touch

Ditto. I do enjoy cuddling, but I HATE having my hair/head touched or stroked - the crown of my head is extremely sensitive! And the habit that men have of wanting put your hair behind your ears!!!! GRRRRRRR [-X really drives me crazy - if I wanted my hair tucked behind my ears I am more than capabl...
by minniemoo
Thu Apr 25, 2013 1:13 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Yay!
Replies: 4
Views: 1896

Re: Yay!

Agree, agree, agree! you are very lucky to have had such a positive and patient response! I hope that everyone else greets the news in the same way.
by minniemoo
Thu Apr 25, 2013 1:10 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need some support with emotions and obsessions
Replies: 16
Views: 7456

Re: Need some support with emotions and obsessions

Hi Luke

Glad to hear that you are finding some support and help here. It has been a godsend to me! I am so grateful to everyone on here and the support that they give.

And incidently - I am also very impressed with Jim's idea for cutting and will try it myself! :D
by minniemoo
Mon Apr 15, 2013 1:25 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need some support with emotions and obsessions
Replies: 16
Views: 7456

Re: Need some support with emotions and obsessions

Mine is awful too!!! But I can write 'properly' if I think carefully about every word - I need to write by hand as part of my job and so I have had to practise a lot. I think this like other things with dyspraxia are better some days and worse others. Some things we can develop coping methods for an...
by minniemoo
Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:58 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need some support with emotions and obsessions
Replies: 16
Views: 7456

Re: Need some support with emotions and obsessions

It was the same for me when I started to learn more about dyspraxia and realize that that was what was behind so many things for me! It is just like a light bulb coming on! :) it's a great way to describe it. I completely understand about the hotel card...grrrr...can be so frustrating at times, espe...
by minniemoo
Sun Apr 14, 2013 10:29 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: my partner has dyspraxia a little advice?
Replies: 5
Views: 4865

Re: my partner has dyspraxia a little advice?

I know I'm a girl - but thought I would add my thoughts anyway :D First, he is incredibly lucky, as Tom says, that you are willing to find out more about it and not to judge him for it. Second, my advice would be not to make it into an issue. So don't ask if certain things he does/can't do etc are p...
by minniemoo
Sun Apr 14, 2013 10:14 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need some support with emotions and obsessions
Replies: 16
Views: 7456

Re: Need some support with emotions and obsessions

Hi Luke They seem perfectly normal for a dyspraxic. There are many things that set us apart in uniqueness and the ones you have mentioned some of us have, some of us don't and to a greater or lesser degree. That is what is so amazing about us - we all have different quirks that we experience to a mo...
by minniemoo
Sun Apr 14, 2013 10:05 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need to share with people who understand
Replies: 4
Views: 3181

Re: Need to share with people who understand

Thank you so much for your support and reassurance that I wasn't completely out of order for being so upset about it. I have explained **soooooo** many times why and how I feel about it. He says that it makes him feel like a guest in his own house! But I don't mind if we talk it through and change t...
by minniemoo
Fri Apr 12, 2013 7:22 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Need to share with people who understand
Replies: 4
Views: 3181

Need to share with people who understand

Sorry, really need to share this with people who understand... came home last night after long day working (started 830 and got home at 2220) to find that my partner had rearranged the whole bloody kitchen, without any warning, no text, no message, nothing. I spotted a tray had swapped to the other ...