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by Xenavire
Thu Feb 04, 2021 7:57 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Support for people who were diagnosed with dyspraxia as a child
Replies: 6
Views: 7739

Re: Support for people who were diagnosed with dyspraxia as a child

I was diagnosed at 11-12. When I was 9-10 I was put in a remedial handwriting class (I wouldn't call it therapy). Later, I was briefly given a typing device for schoolwork (which my highschool didn't bother with.)

That's quite literally all I was offered.
by Xenavire
Thu Jan 07, 2021 9:56 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: New human sharing sad experience with a pizza
Replies: 6
Views: 8651

Re: New human sharing sad experience with a pizza

I'm glad you got a kick out of it - you seemed like you needed a good laugh, and to know you aren't alone. You know what's just as bad as pizza? Tipping over bowls of soup. You lose part of (or all of) your meal, and it gets everywhere. It'll make your dog happy though. The "drip drip" quickly ...
by Xenavire
Thu Jan 07, 2021 8:11 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: New human sharing sad experience with a pizza
Replies: 6
Views: 8651

Re: New human sharing sad experience with a pizza

Don't worry, the pizza gods have visited their dropped offerings on me numerous times. Most recently, about six months back, an XXL frozen pizza - I was starving , and I'd already successfully made my girlfriends pizza for her. What could go wrong, right? Before I'd even had a chance to cut it, the ...
by Xenavire
Mon Nov 30, 2020 5:35 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Living alone
Replies: 4
Views: 8285

Re: Living alone

Yep, I do the same. Funnily enough, the trick is more alarms - once you get to the second or third alarm you are nice and annoyed, and it's harder and harder to ignore. And after enough time, it just becomes a habit to get up after the first one. Not that I don't still make occasional mistakes, but ...
by Xenavire
Sat Nov 28, 2020 11:43 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi everyone! Dyspraxic filmmaker here
Replies: 4
Views: 6292

Re: Hi everyone! Dyspraxic filmmaker here

I can't really answer the rest, but number 3... Yes,I feel like once I am busy with work, I'm best just going until I'm done. Too many distractions (breaks included) and my focus evaporates, and it's extremely hard to get back. However, if I'm not interrupted, I get stuff done and the day just melts ...
by Xenavire
Sat Nov 28, 2020 11:38 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Living alone
Replies: 4
Views: 8285

Re: Living alone

Alarms. When you need a reminder, multiple alarms are a lifesaver. Dentist? Alarm. Feed the cats? Alarm. Work? LOTS of alarms. The nice thing is that just setting the alarm can help you remember, so on occasion you will be ready before your alarm even goes off. The other trick, always be early ...
by Xenavire
Thu Nov 19, 2020 10:09 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New Here - Introduction
Replies: 5
Views: 7396

Re: New Here - Introduction

I like the goblin analogy. It's like that episode of the twilight zone with the creature on the wing - except we were born with it and have ways to slow it down. That's a really fun way to phrase it and capture how it feels when we have really bad days.
by Xenavire
Wed Nov 18, 2020 7:51 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New Here - Introduction
Replies: 5
Views: 7396

Re: New Here - Introduction

Hello, and welcome. Denial is common, but as you have learned, isn't healthy. The same is pretty much universally true - being in denial about being an alcoholic is destructive as well, and I'm sure I could list a bunch more. You have started to accept that you are different - and what people think ...
by Xenavire
Tue Nov 17, 2020 10:59 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Dyspraxics are creative people
Replies: 2
Views: 5339

Re: Dyspraxics are creative people

I'm in total agreement, Tom - our creativity is hard to come by naturally. To use an example, today at work I broke a program (on the user end, so no messing with code) by using the word Hamster. Sure, it's how I used it that mattered (mass copy paste, so any word would have worked), but I was ...
by Xenavire
Sun Nov 08, 2020 10:49 pm
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Sensory overload
Replies: 4
Views: 10038

Re: Sensory overload

I have issues with sound and smell a lot, and actual overloads are almost always caused by sound (and rarely by smell.) I have issues with touch/taste/temperature too though, and light can get me if I'm already being overwhelmed. But by and large, overlapping sounds/excessive volume will give me ...
by Xenavire
Thu Oct 29, 2020 10:34 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: How do I disclose dyspraxia positively
Replies: 4
Views: 6849

Re: How do I disclose dyspraxia positively

I actually disclosed to HR at my new job yesterday. I'd been too nervous to during the hiring process, but some time working has put me at ease, and the feedback was very positive about my strong start. I'm working as a QA tester for a VR company, a startup. They had a shortage of QA testers and my ...
by Xenavire
Mon Oct 12, 2020 11:13 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Touch Typing
Replies: 6
Views: 10417

Re: Touch Typing

I understand touch typing difficulties - I can (sort-of) touch type after more than ten years of typing daily. On a good day I can go without even realising I'm not looking down, other days I'm looking down and correcting myself every few minutes, if not more regularly. What I can say is that yes ...
by Xenavire
Thu Oct 01, 2020 4:15 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New here and looking for advice
Replies: 2
Views: 4431

Re: New here and looking for advice

I'm afraid I don't have any advice for finding exercise videos, nor am I an expert in how Dyspraxia affects us as we get older (I'm about 20 years too inexperienced to offer anything of value.) However! I do have a (hopefully) helpful note for mirrors. For myself, I had horrible issues with brushing ...
by Xenavire
Wed Sep 30, 2020 4:32 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Feeling Down
Replies: 4
Views: 7642

Re: Feeling Down

I'm not sure anyone takes the news well at first. But my outlook has been, for a very long time, that in the case of Dyspraxia especially, that knowledge is power. Knowing what it is gives you an armoury full of tips and tricks that can make your life easier, helps you connect with people with ...
by Xenavire
Thu Sep 24, 2020 10:55 am
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Problems following directions
Replies: 6
Views: 12667

Re: Problems following directions

BettyRizzo, I understand what you mean. After all, even tasks we have done hundreds of times before can go totally wrong - and the frustration that follows is only natural. In my experience, most of the time it's better to remember that everyone makes mistakes, and we should just stay calm and try ...