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by invisible2014
Sun Jan 07, 2018 3:51 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Feel so trapped and ill
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Re: Feel so trapped and ill

You're welcome It might be an idea to see if there is a job with another employer who are better able to balance the safety and needs of the children whilst having a happy safe and relaxed environment for staff too. Appreciate I may be a bit over idealistic there? In the right environment, with the...
by invisible2014
Sun Jan 07, 2018 10:09 am
Forum: Work
Topic: Feel so trapped and ill
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Re: Feel so trapped and ill

Hi tom thank you think will have to put own health first, stuff the rude director and decline,I've woken up.crying yet again.they've not offered me this because they want me its because there's desperate.the previous person left and worked four week notice that gave them four weeks ri.find someone I...
by invisible2014
Sat Jan 06, 2018 4:40 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Feel so trapped and ill
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Feel so trapped and ill

Hi I haven't been on for a while because I felt so much better and happier and healthy until this week.I had been doing cover work at preschool and they've asked me to do a lerment jib which is split hours 7-9 and 3-6 everyday and in the holidays 7-6 everyday. I feel so trapped because I hate these ...
by invisible2014
Fri Aug 25, 2017 10:45 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: bad day at work feel like crying:(
Replies: 9
Views: 837

Re: bad day at work feel like crying:(

You could also maybe ask to be shown how to do it again and say you are struggling Dont be afraid to ask for help, i always do when i am struggling. Thankyou for replying I feel so humilated stupid and ashamed and like I'm not worth it it ,I cant stop thinking about it although managed to get throu...
by invisible2014
Tue Aug 22, 2017 5:07 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: bad day at work feel like crying:(
Replies: 9
Views: 837

Re: bad day at work feel like crying:(

Thankyou for replying maybe I will do that but I my last week off holiday club ad I'm bank staff so only a couple off days the thing that really got me was beingpressured as was difficult xx
by invisible2014
Tue Aug 22, 2017 8:14 am
Forum: Work
Topic: bad day at work feel like crying:(
Replies: 9
Views: 837

Re: bad day at work feel like crying:(

Sooken to stupidly implies that the person doing the speaking was the stupid one which sounds about right. As we try so hard we really don't need people pointing out everything we've done wrong as we're already hyper aware and (over) analysing and usually beating ourselves up. Are you still at the ...
by invisible2014
Mon Aug 21, 2017 6:02 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: bad day at work feel like crying:(
Replies: 9
Views: 837

bad day at work feel like crying:(

What a horrible day ,ive just started changing nappies and I got asked to change two nappies and they went terribly wrong and I got told off for it and spoken to stupidly because I couldn't do it properly I feel so disheartened and sad and like I should just give up I couldn't stop crying I was tryi...
by invisible2014
Thu May 11, 2017 3:49 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: princes trust 12 week course
Replies: 2
Views: 1007

Re: princes trust 12 week course

Hi all I need your advice,ive been applying for jobs have been invited to a trial shift not sure if its worth going as its only 2/3 hours five days and the cost of bus as its 40 min journey each way
by invisible2014
Thu May 11, 2017 10:06 am
Forum: Work
Topic: princes trust 12 week course
Replies: 2
Views: 1007

princes trust 12 week course

Hi I was looking into this to boost my confidence,the twelve week course for 16-25 but I dint think its for me sounds like my worst nightmare everything practical,residential truo football,I love the work experience side and I think that sounds great however not practical side i wouldn't like reside...
by invisible2014
Wed May 03, 2017 6:52 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 2421

Re: a bit offended :-(

Tom fod wrote:But given their inability to fulfil their duty of care to you really want to continue working for this employer?

Thankyou tom your absolutely right I had plans last friday and goy asked to work,cant believe I was going to cancel mu plans when they did this in so glad I didn't go in now.
by invisible2014
Tue May 02, 2017 5:41 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 2421

Re: a bit offended :-(

I am feeling very disheartened,I found out the preschool have taken someone on as a preschool assistant at the site I like and wanted to be on when they knew this.fair enough I resigned from the other site but I don't think this is fair,I have put all job interviews on hold because of this.im so.gla...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:09 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: upbringing to blame for way i am now?
Replies: 4
Views: 1190

upbringing to blame for way i am now?

Ever since a young child I was mollycoddleed and over looked after.My parents would not let me out on my own untill I was 16 ,they would not let me go to another town on my own untill I was 17 like get on the train on my own.when everyone else was walking to school on there alone I was not allowed t...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:22 am
Forum: Work
Topic: a bit offended :-(
Replies: 17
Views: 2421

Re: a bit offended :-(

Thankyou I'm not sure whether to go ahead and gp for interview,hours are 7.15-9 than 3.15 to 6pm saw my Dr today pretended everything was ok Aaaarrggghhh I really do despair 8-) Then again, who hasn't pretended things are ok/fine when they really haven't been? Your Dr isn't there to pass judgement ...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:18 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: shocked how to say no
Replies: 4
Views: 1102

Re: shocked how to say no

If she knows you're unemployed, it's absurd she's asking you. You could even tell her something along the lines of, "As you know, I'm unemployed at present. Consequently, I need to make sure I have enough money to eat, keep a roof over my head and pay for travel to interviews for the next few ...
by invisible2014
Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:16 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: shocked how to say no
Replies: 4
Views: 1102

Re: shocked how to say no

Tom fod wrote:You can say you're sorry to hear of your friends financisl predicament but she needs to take this up with the hotel and/or her bank. It really is not you problem.
Simples

Exzactly I thought she should ask her mum who she's actually going away with four a contribution and not me

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