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by Tom fod
Tue Feb 20, 2018 3:16 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Does Anyone Find It Difficult To Restore Equilibrium After Stressfull Events?
Replies: 1
Views: 16

Re: Does Anyone Find It Difficult To Restore Equilibrium After Stressfull Events?

Yes in the sense I find I remain stressed in situations where I'm upset or annoyed (as likely with myself) and should really let things go. I tend to often keep r evisiting why things had not gone the way they should have. I get stressed when I lose important things or because other people have caus...
by Tom fod
Tue Feb 20, 2018 1:01 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Anyone had any contact with Occupational Therapy ?
Replies: 4
Views: 45

Re: Anyone had any contact with Occupational Therapy ?

Jess Your GP in theory should be able to refer you, privately or via NHS. I was not keen on the extra help I've been offered as I'm fiercely independent and don't want to be seen to be treated differently from my peers and I am deeply mistrustful of the notion that by giving us fancy tech our diffic...
by Tom fod
Tue Feb 20, 2018 12:52 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friendship/relationship advice
Replies: 12
Views: 509

Re: Friendship/relationship advice - Update

I think we're inclined to overthink these things which unfortunately can often put us at odds with others. There are a whole load of unspoken rules and different people interpret these in different ways. Can I ask what you said in the message that then resulted in her blocking you? (completely under...
by Tom fod
Tue Feb 20, 2018 12:24 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: conversation and speech greatly effecting relationships
Replies: 3
Views: 88

Re: conversation and speech greatly effecting relationships

Hi again Arch Apologies for delay the in my responding. My understanding is that there is at least some crossover between Dyslexia, and Dyspraxia (and with other cognitive difference conditions too) in terms or organisation of thought, concentration and short term memory. Jumbling words is something...
by Tom fod
Mon Feb 19, 2018 1:42 am
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Does anyone else break zips and tangle up earphones?
Replies: 9
Views: 142

Re: Does anyone else break zips and tangle up earphones?

Maybe we just feel disproportionately affected8-)?
by Tom fod
Mon Feb 19, 2018 1:30 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi there everyone :)
Replies: 1
Views: 34

Re: Hi there everyone :)

Hi Ben

Welcome feel free to start new threads,contribute to existings ones or just read up until you feel ready to post. We pride ourselves on being friendly and non judgemental.
by Tom fod
Sun Feb 18, 2018 8:53 am
Forum: Day-to-day living
Topic: Can openers!
Replies: 4
Views: 43

Re: Can openers!

Correct that managed to work it out,but will I remember next time? Is that a dyspraxic thing I wonder-variable ability to do a task? " Variable performance- better at a task one day, poorer the next," http://www.snagroup.ie/index.php/dys2 Manage Yes I would say it is. My Tin opener seems ...
by Tom fod
Sun Feb 18, 2018 8:46 am
Forum: Work
Topic: Losing jobs.
Replies: 7
Views: 93

Re: Losing jobs.

Allesandro Not sure it would have blindest bit of difference with the boss you had anyway. She sounds like a right dragon. I'm conscious there are likely some protectons for people with disabilities/cognitive prosessing difference. How well do they work? We have the Equality Act, though I think some...
by Tom fod
Fri Feb 16, 2018 9:22 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Resigned from my job today
Replies: 2
Views: 49

Re: Resigned from my job today

For the record I think she had it coming and many others would have told her to take a hike (or much worse) a long time ago! Is she the most senior person or is there someone above/below her who could talk sense into her if she is too stubborn to apologise? I would say I have a good grasp of IT but ...
by Tom fod
Fri Feb 16, 2018 9:01 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: conversation and speech greatly effecting relationships
Replies: 3
Views: 88

Re: conversation and speech greatly effecting relationships

Hi and welcome Whilst I can't personally relate directly to what you've posted I can certainly sense the anxiety it's causing you. Dyspraxia can and does affect short term memory and cause us to forget and/or jumble up our words. This naturally heightens anxiety and we have a vicious circle to deal ...
by Tom fod
Fri Feb 16, 2018 8:34 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Losing jobs.
Replies: 7
Views: 93

Re: Losing jobs.

Shaw Trust is actually who I worked for and really enjoyed the time being there. I used to suffer from panic attacks when I was younger, which I thought had gone, but they come back when I'm put in a group of unknown people or get frustrated with the job. I can relate to that. My experience is that...
by Tom fod
Thu Feb 15, 2018 7:46 pm
Forum: Dyspraxia Chat
Topic: Keeping Current With Fresh Posts
Replies: 3
Views: 73

Re: Keeping Current With Fresh Posts

Thank you. I completely agree, Whilst we can't force people to post X number of posts a week (and I wouldn't want that) it would be great if it were more lively here. I try to answer posts that are going unanswered where I can as I'm conscious people in many cases will be feeling a bit distressed an...
by Tom fod
Thu Feb 15, 2018 7:31 pm
Forum: Work
Topic: Losing jobs.
Replies: 7
Views: 93

Re: Losing jobs.

Hi again. I don't think I'd last long in a factory job. Personally I'm not a fan of employment agencies. I think quite a few employers just use them to fill short term posts and I feel like, why should there be a middleman taking a cut from my hourly rate. They're mainly seeking to get people in job...
by Tom fod
Thu Feb 15, 2018 12:36 am
Forum: Work
Topic: Losing jobs.
Replies: 7
Views: 93

Re: Losing jobs.

Hi Swerving Centaur and welcome The problem of how and when to disclose troubles many of us. Having to adapt to a new employer, role and colleagues is likely to be disproportionately difficult for many of us I find selling myself really difficult but have managed to improve a bit. I fell at the inte...

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